INTRODUCTION
Daddy, Please Understand Me: Temperament /Elements
If a man does not keep pace with his companions,
Perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer.
Let him step to the music which he hears,
However measured or far away.
—Henry David Thoreau
—Henry David Thoreau
It is my endeavor to make the book
user-friendly so that Daddy, Please
Understand Me helps people find their temperament and personality
style. Portraits of temperament and character types are simple and accurate.
The book’s essential message: that members of families and institutions are OK,
even though they are fundamentally different from each other, and that they
would all do well to appreciate their differences and give up trying to change
others into copies of themselves.
Now: Daddy, Please Understand Me
For the past twelve years I have
continued to investigate personality differences -- to refine the theory of the four
temperaments and to define the facets of character that distinguish one
from another. My findings form the basis of Daddy, Please Understand
Me. One major theme in the
book is how the temperaments differ in the intelligent roles they are most
likely to develop. Each of us, has four
kinds of intelligence -- tactical, diplomatic,
logistical and strategic -- though only one of the four,
interests us far more than the others, and thus gets far more practice than the
rest. Like four suits in a hand of cards, we each have a long suit and a short
suit in what interests us and what we do well, and fortunate indeed are those
whose work matches their skills.
In the book you find Four- Temperament
Sorter, a new short questionnaire that identifies one's basic temperament and then ranks one's second, third, and fourth
choices. Share this new sorter with friends and family, and get set for a
lively and fascinating discussion of temperament/ personal styles.
In
astrology we know four elements,
Fire, Air, Water and earth. Air rules
the signs, Gemini, Libra and Aquarius; Fire
rules, Aries, Leo and Sagittarius, Water
rules,Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces; Earth
rules, Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn. Thus each element has three signs. These
three signs belonging to a particular element are the three shades of the
particular element, enabling us to understand the finer traits and variants. By
having command on elements/ tattwa the ‘Tattwavetta’ becomes most powerful and
can manipulate fate to advantage if he can’t change fate.
These
elements are known as Humours or personality types or function types or
psychology types. To be an expert astrologer one must read theology, psychology,
logic, physics, chemistry, biology and botany etc to decipher the symbolism
used in Astrology.